Dealing With Negative Relatives During the Holidays

December 8th, 2010

Dealing With Negative Relatives During the Holidays

I heard a story that someone asked a Polish citizen living under the communist regime if he regarded his Russian comrades as friends or family. “ Family,” he quickly responded.  “You can choose your friends.”  Now with Thanksgiving around the corner, many of us will be face to fork with family and in-laws who may put us in a “fowl” mood (okay, okay, no more of bad turkey puns in this blog entry.)

So how does one face these challenges and keep an optimistic attitude?

Whatever you say, you’re right!

November 11th, 2009

I’m broke.

I’m poor.

I’m fat.

I’m ugly.

I’ll never amount to anything.

I can’t remember names.

No one will like me.

Guess what?  You’re right!  If this is what you find yourself saying to yourself on a daily basis I can guarantee you your life is not one you enjoy, that you’re not surrounded by positive, fun-loving people and your bankbook is probably close to zero or even worse…in the red!

Optimism

May 8th, 2009

Michael J. Fox will always be Alex P. Keaton & Marty McFly to me and probably to many other adults who were born in the 70′s and grew into their teen years in the 80′s.  Today, Michael J. Fox is so much more than an actor, he is an advocate for and patient with, Parkinson’s disease.  What many may not know is he was diagnosed at 30 and today, at 47 is a powerhouse advocating, educating and living with Parkinson’s.  Parkinson’s disease is a movement disorder, “a degenerative disease of the brain (central nervous system) that often impairs motor skills, speech, and other functions.”[Wikipedia] and unfortunately, I am no stranger to this disease as both my great uncle (mom’s side) and my own father lived with this illness for many years.  I have seen first hand how debilitating it can be, to not only the patient but to the loved ones who watch as it runs it’s course.  Now on the up side, there are treatments available and they are becoming more and more advanced….I know in my heart that the cure will be found in my lifetime.

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